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Symbolic Ceremonies: How They Work and Their Meaning

An increasingly popular way to add meaning to a wedding is through symbolic ceremonies, rituals that are included in the wedding ceremony to represent the couple’s values, beliefs, or special commitments.

These rituals go beyond the standard traditions and allow couples to customize their wedding experience in a significant, moving way. They usually include elements that reflect your love and mutual commitment, or that have cultural, religious, or personal roots.

Types of rituals and the meaning they bring to your ceremony:

Sand ceremony: In this ceremony, the couple pours sand of different colors into a common recipient, symbolizing the union of their lives and the creation of a new, beautiful whole.

Tree planting ceremony: The couple plants a tree together during the ceremony. It symbolizes the growth of their love and their shared wishes for the future.

Candle ceremony: The couple lights a candle together. This represents the light and warmth that they bring to each other in the dark and at difficult moments.

Handfasting ceremony: The couple’s hands are joined with a ribbon or cord, representing their union and the bond they share.

Hand holding ceremony: The couple place their hands one over the other, creating a visual symbol. This represents their mutual commitment and the promise to support one another in all stages of life.

The wonderful thing about symbolic ceremonies is that there are no set rules. You can adapt the ceremony to your tastes, beliefs, and values. Love nature? Consider an outdoor ceremony with natural elements. Are you passionate about music? Incorporate a meaningful song into your ritual.

How long should it last?

The duration of a symbolic wedding ceremony may vary depending on your preferences, cultural traditions, and the general style of the wedding. A symbolic ceremony generally lasts between 20 minutes and an hour. The shorter length focuses on the symbolic and emotional elements, while a longer ceremony can include readings, music, rituals, and speeches.

The key is to ensure the ceremony adapts to your style and reflects who you are and what you hope for your future together.

Text written by: Sofía Mira Abelleira